re: Complicated situation. Advice appreciated. Will try to be brief.

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Thanks. If she contacts me to talk, I'm going to suggest a place out in the open - not going to be on my property. At this point I suspect she may not even show up to talk and after what I found out today that's fine with me. I just need to communicate to her that she is not to go on my property again or the Sheriff's dept will likely be called out (if I'm not out there).

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you need to not be so soft. dont be ambiguous.be firm. if she goes to property sheriff will be called. stop coddling her, especially since the information you found out about her seems to have you wanting to distance yourself. no likely. no if im not out there.

no exceptions. just clear cut boundaries.