re: Complicated situation. Advice appreciated. Will try to be brief.

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You are going to get screwed, and not in a good way. I agree with the rest of the OT who thinks your property is going to wind up being used by the BF to be a barricaded standoff set piece in some played out on TV drama where you went to talk her down and got held hostage before being shot.

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first thing I thought of ....




my advice as suggested by others, you have to tell this chick your property is OFF LIMITS , no trespassing. Chit fixing to get real crazy when her bf gets out of jail.

I would quit feeling sorry for this girl as she is preying on your emotions and soft-side. She & bf will use you/your property like a rented mule. Disengage now before it is to late.


edit: we were both typing at same time. Glad to see you're being pro-active to keep her off your property. FWIW, I'm a counselor by profession and the whole scenario with this girl smells real bad.