re: Anyone else had this problem after first child born?

Just tell her what plans you have and make sure she knows she's included....if she opts out, so be it. Grasp the freedom to hunt. fish, ballgame, etc without her....Handle our shite and help her around the house, but when it's time to relax and she decides to sit home, have fun.

And Im telling you this NOT condoning you going to bars and crap like that.