re: For those who think marriage stinks,

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If anyone gets married thinking marriage is just about how you feel and being happy with unicorn bubbles coming out your butt, then they probably shouldn't get married until they do get it. It's called GIVING, and LOVING without regard to the other returning it, and when you do, you will receive as well. Today however, I think many people are wanting to receive first before they give. It's bass ackwards. You make a commitment, not an agreement that if everything is warm and fuzzy. It's a real generational issue here that's fueled by FEELINGS rather than hard work, which is what it's about. It's all about feelings today...


...taken from another marriage thread on this board. I thought this guy was spot on with his analysis.

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