re: What would the OB do?

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I found a compact XD 40 for about 450, but its smaller than my XDM, both in capacity and in barrel length. I feel like it might be a better fit for her

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I have a feeling that compact XD40 is not going to be a good fit. You may be able to handle it fine, but 40 is very snappy... especially in small guns.

If you don't want to wait for a 9mm for her, I would give her your 9mm and buy yourself a 40.