re: Dinner Party Menu Planning...need some advice. (Updated, proposed Menu on pg 2)

This might be a bit too casual, but have you thought about something like a fajita bar? 99% of it is advance prep work, then once everyone gets there, you throw some steak, chicken and shrimp on the grill. Reheat some sautéed onion and bell pepper, and people can build their own. Might be a good option if there's not a lot of seating space.

You could serve these individual 7 layer dips as the app. I made them for our Super Bowl party and they were a huge hit. Seven Layer Dips Word of caution: do not make if you are not a patient person!