re: Complicated marriage/legal question involving finances

As for the hotel, is she, like, traveling on a pre-planned vacation? Is she alone just making it up as she goes along or is she with friends or family or visiting them? That makes it less ominous. Edited again to say that if she is, say, visiting family, taking the advice of those saying put a secret tracker on her may lend credence to her delusions of being watched or followed, at least to a court.