re: Complicated marriage/legal question involving finances

I used to do chemical dependency intake in ER's..there is almost assuredly drugs involved here....the hotel room is to do them without getting inturrupted...the money for the fixes...
You need to cut her off of all money...move it all out of the joint account....when she starts detoxing she will be all over you or family for money..Require a drug screen for any more funds..