re: Complicated marriage/legal question involving finances

She is possibly having the beginning of a manic episode. Unexplainable shopping out of the blue like you are describing is not uncommon.

You should…at a minimum…have an understanding of the steps involved with having her picked up. You don’t want to start figuring this all out only if/when things get totally out of hand. Do you have a relationship with her family?

Has she been taking any new meds or does she have a family history of mental illness?