re: What are women actually attracted to?

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if you haven’t kissed me in a week, I’m not initiating sex

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Nor should you. You should be kissed passionately every single day. Preferably with a hand on your arse while being moved by his superior physical strength against a wall. I had an ex who said "all our problems can be solved in the bedroom" and I think that is the ancient wisdom we need to understand. Genuine burning desire for each other. I couldn't wait to kiss her in the way I knew she craved. Was I doing that for me or for her? That passion keeps the lights on. Going through the motions is for suckers.

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not really but what should YOU do besides making enough money to pay the bills? Or is that good enough?

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My job as a man is to give you what you need, telling you NO when it is in our best interest to establish my innate masculine competence and leadership until you begin to crave it. You just know your man has integrity and good judgement and you find that attractive. Your job is to submit in a loving and feminine manner that causes me to become even more attuned to you and aware of your needs. Your submission is a gift that makes you irresistible. Wise people call this natural masculine-feminine dynamic- JOY. And wise women know this is the way to get what you want from the man. In the end, he's scrambling to think of new ways to give you what you want. Your submission created that, not by acting like a Boss Bitch who "don't need no man, y'all". Not that you or anybody in this thread is that horrific sub species of American womanhood.