re: The goal of many Gen Z and millennial women is now to be a DINK—dual income and no kids

DBs feigned indignation at your metaphor is a red herring anyway. Children are the parachute for every subsequent generation, whether someone chooses to contribute to that or not. The last generation of humanity is going to have a real bad time.

Either way, the concept of staying in the lane you're assigned based on your identity or "lived experience" is weak. It's an attempt to avoid debate on a topic for which you have a shaky position.