re: Do the majority of women only look at what they can get out of a relationship now days?

Well, there is a school of thought that says that most women don’t love us in the way we love them. That’s a lot for a man to grapple with; that he won’t ever be loved as he loves. It’s why men become disillusioned and hopeless and put guns in their mouths while women go shopping with their girlfriends.