re: What are some life lessons about women that you learned the hard way.?

The sad truth is that women never marry the men that they lust after.
Women marry men that they feel are safe/stable/loyal because they want a husband that will take care of her & the kids.
They marry men that other women don't desire, that way they don't have to worry about other women stealing her provider.
But women don't find safe/stable/loyal sexy.
Once you marry a woman she views you the same way she views her father, as a provider/protector.
She lusts after the mailman, the work husband, the guy at the gym etc.
The last guy that she wants to F is the husband..
That's why so many marriages are sexless.
It's not that she doesn't want sex, she just doesn't want it with her husband.
Wives just dole out enough boring starfish maintenance sex to keep her provider paying her bills.
But the men she cheats with, oh they get the Good Stuff !
I'm never getting married, it's more fun being the guy she lusts after !