re: So last night I had a moment

I got divorced in '11 and am now remarried. We all have different scenarios and reasons for moving on. I'm around my ex fairly often due to our kid and we get along fine. But not once have I ever looked at her thought about what could have been. I used to wonder why I didn't end it sooner. I'm so far removed from that relationship that I see her and the idea of being married to her doesn't seem real.
My current wife has even commented that it's hard for her to picture my ex and I ever being together because we are so different. I can honestly say that what I have now is everything I wished I had back then.