re: How many of us are products of a divorced family?

In most cases, divorce is devestating to children. I'm reminded of a sad incident on a early Saturday morning about 30 years ago (It was so disturbing the incident is etched in my mind) I'd gone to this local place of business to pick up some items. There were two ladies behind the counter and one of them was on the phone. Right there in front of everyone the mother was trashing her ex for forgetting to pick up their son that morning. It was his weekend to have their son and he simply didn't pick him up. . So she was forced to bring him to work. I could only imagine the foul language in that car as the woman (she was no lady - for sure) drove to work. The mother was clearly distraught.

But what was most disturbing about that incident - as I rummaged through the aisles looking for my item, I spotted the young man (maybe 13) hiding behind some shelving in the corner of the store. I could read the pain and embarassment in his face. I smiled at him as he glanced away from me. How do you console a hurt like that?

Divorced families with children is a great tragedy. I'll describe it that way.