re: I’m 9 years older than my girlfriend, does that make me a creep?

I opened the thread to ask if you were over 30. She can make decisions at her age.

I was starting to date someone about 14 years younger (I’m early 50s) and the only thing that stopped me was my son who was closer to her age than I was.

He didn’t like it but would have been ok. I got uncomfortable once that math was pointed out.