re: For the married OTers, do you do girls trips or guys trips?

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With normal friends - yes
With trashy skanks - no

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I'll bump this. Dudes know which one of their friends like coke, or staying up too late than a 35+ year old should. No, I don't want to hire strippers, dude. Women know which of their friends are going to invite dudes back to your VRBO.

However, any trip that mixes sexes involves "queens" (not directed at you or BluegrassBelle) working the men like dogs, usually due to lack of prep and planning. Guys have problems on guy trips, it's who didn't put enough beer on ice. Women have problems, it's different, and it's your fault, even if the man isn't there.

My best guess to OP (which will not work) is to establish guardrails, and not get pissed when she blows them out of the water. You're pissing in the woods while she's getting lapdances in Nashville, but somehow same/same in her head?