re: For the married OTers, do you do girls trips or guys trips?

Absolutely, they are called hunting trips. Mostly chase ducks. Okie, Kansas, and Arkansas were previous destinations. Going to Canada this year. Wife goes on a trip once a year with her friends from high school. One of them is pretty loaded (married well above her pay grade) so they usually go to her condo in OB but maybe every other year they go to Mexico. A few of them are bat shite crazy and full of drama. Obviously divorced and pissed at all men.