re: Empty nesters

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wife (no pics) and I are trying to find things to do. It’s been difficult tbh.

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Start by finding things for you to do.

Many parents lose their sense of selves by devoting so much to their kids.

Best way to fix that is to focus on you first. Find your own hobbies, social life, interests, ambitions, etc. Then invite your wife into it.

You want to be able to say: “Hey honey, I’ve been really getting into [insert some thing you’re interested in] and there’s an event on Friday night. I’d love for you to come with me.”

You don’t want to become these guys: