re: Is there anything more pathetic than a Man staying with a Woman that has cheated on him?

quote:

---

It was a pretty awkward time to say the least. I tried to move and forgive her. We did break up during the whole incident but we ended up getting back together. The think was I never really trusted her again, which was the real downfall of her marriage.
I ended up cheating on her and getting the other girl pregnant. We are now happily married.

---

So, in retrospect, was it the right thing to do in regards to the kids? Do you think they were negatively affected by it? Do you think they sensed that things were not right between you? AND, since you ended up cheating on her, do you think they now see YOU as the bad guy? Did your sticking around only to later cheat and divorce undermine all that you were trying to do by staying?

Sounds like you should have cut bait when you were the victim and she was the whore...