re: Genuine OT help on a new engagee

As is the case with any project that is overwhelming help her with one thing at a time. You can't eat an elephant in one bite, it takes a bunch of little bites.

With that said I would she sounds like she is probably too immature to be getting married. I understand it is a HUGE ordeal for the bride but most women panic to start with and then turn into the best fricking project manager the worlds ever seen...even with all the meltdowns and what not. When she brings it up I would pretend like I hadn't even though about it. That will light a fire under her arse if she is serious and if she is not you will have your answer. It is an ordeal for the bride...why they put themselves through it is beyond me but many do.