re: Genuine OT help on a new engagee

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She has some sort of personality disorder and shuts down when there’s an important decision to be made. She has visions of how everything is going to be and freaks out when things might be different than her ideal. Imagine what she’s going to be like with a baby.

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This. It’s odd that he has been with her 3 years and is just realizing how she is. Has she never faced any true challenges in the time they have been together? Any deaths in her family, serious illness in family, family drama, etc?

OP needs someone that can weather the real storms of life. Not someone that loses it at the thought of just planning a wedding