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re: Genuine OT help on a new engagee

Posted on 10/9/23 at 11:27 am to
Posted by lsunurse
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Posted on 10/9/23 at 11:27 am to
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Don't forget about having to plan the rehearsal activities and other activities for guests. It's not just the wedding. Make transportation available for the guest to attend the rehearsal, wedding and other activities.


Yep and also have to take into consideration those that have kids that may travel with them. You better allow kids at the wedding or a lot of people won’t go. It’s one thing to get a sitter for the night at a local wedding….a whole other thing to arrange for child care while you have to go on a trip for a wedding
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Start praying now that flights go smoothly without cancellations and no luggage is lost, particularly the wedding dress etc..


11 years ago when I got married I had my wedding dress in a garment bag and the airline was kind enough to hang it in a separate closet they had.

No way in hell that would happen now. You would be better off shipping it ahead of the wedding and hope it doesn’t get lost.


Also…my former in-laws almost didn’t even make it to the wedding. Former mother in law got violently ill on the plane and spent most of their supposed fun “trip” in a hotel near the houston airport trying to get some motion sickness patches so they could get on another flight to us. They literally arrived in Florida 2 hours before the wedding.


OP’s fiancee doesn’t seem emotionally stable enough to plan a destination wedding
Posted by Gris Gris
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Member since Feb 2008
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Posted on 10/9/23 at 12:00 pm to
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OP’s fiancee doesn’t seem emotionally stable enough to plan a destination wedding


That may be true. The description is awfully odd. They've talked about getting married etc... for a long time and now, it's a trauma drama. Maybe she's OCD. Something definitely isn't right here and unless there's a dramatic change in her, she's not going to make it through this.

Planning weddings is stressful. It's the nature of the beast, but it shouldn't be so stressful that the stress overshadows the event. If she's this stressful now, she's going to go bonkers on the weekend of the event and she won't enjoy it.
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