re: Genuine OT help on a new engagee

Or just don't do a destination wedding.

To me they are kind of ordeals meant to exclude certain people (often one side of the family)

I mean, have the fricking wedding somewhere accessible, then go on YOUR destination honeymoon. Don't force other people to take a vacation the may not be able to afford or be left out.

It's a needless a-hole move unless the destination is only a few hours for most