re: Genuine OT help on a new engagee

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Get out while you can, I have an amazing wife, she bought a CZ off Amazon and we got married in the back yard.

You are going to flush 50k on a party. I feel like there is an undertone in your post, do you think shes only dragging her feet on wedding planning?

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So many ways to approach this.

Good for you that you and your wife had the ring and wedding you wanted. Not everyone wants a giant wedding and a party, which is fine.

However don’t look down on people who do and can afford it. Spending your money on what you want is not flushing anything. It may be in your opinion, but they’re not spending your money.