re: UPDATE: Difficult news regarding unborn child

You didn’t do anything wrong. Pray for the baby and your wife. It’s a lot but it might not be as bad as you thought. My friends daughter had similar prognosis. She is 8 now with lots of issues (wheelchair bound, deformities, organ issues requiring annual surgeries). Wouldn’t change it for anything. Kid is amazing and just competed in special Olympics and set records. She is smart, opinionated and happy. You just never know what might happen. Love your kid and make the best of it.