re: How do you go about bringing up butt stuff to your wife?

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Go to the sex toy store together and both of you point out toys that look fun to try. Point to a strap on and say "you'll have to get me drunk before I let you use that thing on me" in a joking manner. If she is against the idea she'll protest vehemently. Otherwise you can probably talk her into it.

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We are all witnesses, this is the voice of experience speaking to us here folks.

I'm not listening to it, ftr.