re: How do people cope with separation or divorce?

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Just wanted to let all the folk here saying to start drinking and go to to bars and hook up with sluts, you're a loser.

If you want to do that when you're 24 and divorced with no kids, so be it, you're still a loser and likely the reason you are getting divorced if you think drinking and hanging out in a bar is what a healthy stable adult should be doing.

Read the OP. He's got 3 kids. They are what matter more than anything. Stop with this childish go drinking and slay poon advice.

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Ok internet user TeddyPadillac. Now that you have called a bunch of anonymous people "Losers", what is your advice?

Going out with friends and staying busy helps keep your mind off of things. No one is telling him to drag his three kids to the bar.

Only a "Loser" would come in a thread to call out "losers" and not bother to give any useful input.

BTW, most men get minimal custody. So every other weekend, I would suggest to spend all your time with your kids and make sure they are handling it ok.