re: How do people cope with separation or divorce?

Been going through it for the last two years. 3 things.

1. Develop a group of friends… If you don’t have any. I sort of support group that can occupy your time and give you advice.

2. Go talk to someone. There is a stigma about men seeking therapy. That is complete bullshite. Go talk to someone and get this off your chest. Trust me it works.

3. You would best serve yourself and your kids, if you have any, to remember that she is your enemy now. I don’t mean that in a physical sense. I mean that you do not trust her. You steer clear of her. And you should always keep your guard up because she will frick you every chance she gets. I don’t care what anybody else on there tells you about“she’s the mother of your kids“, bullshite… I didn’t say you have to frick her over I just said you need to consider an enemy. You would never let the enemy close to you and that would best serve you.