re: How do people cope with separation or divorce?

As a father of 4 that just lost his wife a couple months ago I say quit being a stubborn fricking pussy and make it work. Go to counseling with her. Learn to give in some. Marriage is hard but divorce is harder. She deserves a better effort out of you and your kids DEFINITELY deserve it. You made a commitment, there no infidelity, quit being a bitch, man up and honor the commitment you made. Make it work. I’d give a nut, or both nuts to be in your shoes. Get back to the basics with her and fall in love with her again. Unless she’s fat, the disregard the whole post-JK. You owe it to the kids.