re: What would you do if your daughter told you she is now a he and is trans?

College doesn't have to be an indoctrination center.
Online universities have all of the education and none of the social crap. Check out Western Governors University. The first time I met another student was at graduation and there were 3,000 of us there. They have a business college, IT, teaching and nursing colleges. And it's damn cheap, my whole 4yr degree was under $25k. I'm actually starting my masters on Wednesday. If I accelerate as planned, I'll get an MBA for less than $5k from a 4x regionally accredited university.

Keeping your daughter in an uneducated bubble is not the right answer. Long term, we need more educated young people who are impervious to woke rhetoric, to excel and outperform the current crop of Gen Z gender hijackers. In a few years they will all be vying for leadership positions-- in management and government. We need more educated voices in that generation and the one after it.