re: Is someone a good man if they derive pleasure from people thinking they are a good man?

My abusive father turned me into a people pleaser at an early age.

I’m always upbeat, and consciously and probably subconsciously I try to project an easy going nature.

But, as I am nice when I first meet someone and try my best to be a nice guy, I’ll grow to resent a person if they constantly let me down or annoy me.

Passive aggressive people are the one type of person I usually have no tolerance from