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Posted on 12/12/14 at 6:15 pm to
Posted by BoardReader
Arkansas
Member since Dec 2007
6925 posts
Posted on 12/12/14 at 6:15 pm to
Go see her. When she goes off into another room, have your pants around your ankles when she comes back, waggle it at her, and say:

'Well, its not going to suck itself woman.'

Either reaction, you will at least have resolution.
Posted by ZacAttack
The Land Mass
Member since Oct 2012
6416 posts
Posted on 12/12/14 at 6:29 pm to
Duuuuude. Women are complicated but damn, don't over complicate things. Don't play games, just go for what you want, she'll tell you when to stop, trust me. Don't ignore her, know what happens when you ignore women? Most tend to move on, unless they are emotionally crippled or some shite.

So, like already said grow some balls.
Posted by The Bruce
Member since Dec 2013
951 posts
Posted on 12/12/14 at 7:43 pm to
Only read the first page.

Your putting the pussy on a pedestal.

You're young and it's painfully obvious. I can tell now within 5 minutes of talking with a woman if she wants to frick me or not.
Posted by Diddles
LA
Member since Apr 2013
6981 posts
Posted on 12/12/14 at 7:51 pm to
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She has even invited me to hang out with her friends


Posted by OMLandshark
Member since Apr 2009
108098 posts
Posted on 12/12/14 at 8:06 pm to
If you like her and she obviously likes you, why not go for it? I don't see the problem here. Doesn't seem as if she's constantly calling you and stalking you like a crazy person. Just gives you a text and huge "hint hint" every few weeks. How I started things off with mine. Just go for it.
Posted by OMLandshark
Member since Apr 2009
108098 posts
Posted on 12/12/14 at 8:09 pm to
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i dont understand the "ignoring text" game some of you play.


I don't either. I understand taking it slow with the texting, and texting her once a week, then twice, and eventually daily, but just ignoring texts? That's just a dick/bitch move. If you like the person and aren't annoyed by them, you should respond.
Posted by The Sad Banana
The gate is narrow.
Member since Jul 2008
89498 posts
Posted on 12/12/14 at 8:10 pm to
How could you not text someone who you are trying to get to know for weeks at a time?
Posted by OMLandshark
Member since Apr 2009
108098 posts
Posted on 12/12/14 at 8:10 pm to
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How does this even happen?


It happened to me once, and I was fricking confused as hell.
Posted by Bushmaster
19th Hole
Member since Oct 2008
39618 posts
Posted on 12/12/14 at 8:11 pm to
Finger and/or eat her a-hole. Stop playing games with this whore.
Posted by OMLandshark
Member since Apr 2009
108098 posts
Posted on 12/12/14 at 8:16 pm to
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I don't like the games either because I don't like being an ahole but unfortunately women eat it up.


I used to think this, and yes many bitches do like assholes, but I think most actually don't, at least the way you perceive it. They like confidence. If you're confident you're taking a girl home from a bar, are slightly funny, and not slobbering all over yourself drunk, then that will turn a chick on. There's a reason fat dudes with not much money can pick up hot chicks, and it probably has nothing to do with assholery. Ignoring a chicks texts isn't what assholes do, it's what socially awkward weirdos or people who want nothing to do with you do.
This post was edited on 12/12/14 at 8:18 pm
Posted by LucasP
Member since Apr 2012
21618 posts
Posted on 12/12/14 at 8:29 pm to
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Y'all lay off this dude.


Lay off him? All I've seen in this thread is some solid advice and real world life lessons. He should pay money for this caliber of life coaching.
Posted by The Bruce
Member since Dec 2013
951 posts
Posted on 12/12/14 at 8:34 pm to
Exactly. I wish I had a sounding board when I was being an idiot dealing with women.
Posted by Napoleon
Kenna
Member since Dec 2007
69059 posts
Posted on 12/12/14 at 8:47 pm to
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. We'll after a few days of no texts she texts me "hang out next week?" last night. I usually respond within at least 3 or 4 hours but decided to ignore her text. She texts me again about an hour ago "I'm going to miss my PIC this weekend". PIC = partner in crime btw.


that's not a good thing.

FZ
Posted by Govt Tide
Member since Nov 2009
9111 posts
Posted on 12/12/14 at 8:50 pm to
Just for the record I've been texting her since I made this thread. Said frick it and got ballsy and invited her over to my place tonight. She's said "not tonight but soon!!". Texted her to let me know soon or I was going to make other plans. She just called me and asked me what I was doing Sunday night and to call her as soon as I got back in town. The aggressive approach didn't pay off tonight and may not ultimately close the deal but I like this latest turn of events. Put it out there and put her on the spot and she's still playing along which is a good sign.
Posted by Govt Tide
Member since Nov 2009
9111 posts
Posted on 12/12/14 at 9:06 pm to
And for the record, I'm fighting a pretty big uphill battle here. She had a 4 year close boyfriend that she technically never broke up with and still keeps in contact with so my expectations are pretty low to begin with. She's cool as s###, fun to hang out with, and pretty hot to boot. Any hook ups are gravy.

Besides, I've already got another one in the bag. I'm hanging out with her tomorrow and getting some from her if I want it. The only thing about this girl is were good friends (with some benefits) that I don't want to hurt. We agreed that we can date others but she wants to be exclusive with me while I don't.
Posted by bhtigerfan
Baton Rouge
Member since Sep 2008
29414 posts
Posted on 12/13/14 at 4:26 am to
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LucasP


quote:

You may be a genius
An evil genius. That last post about pretending to be gay then impregnating her had me rolling.
Posted by 3D
NJ
Member since Sep 2013
1025 posts
Posted on 12/13/14 at 6:29 am to
I wonder what the ex is doing on the West Coast ??... (Since those plans were booked, she was avail to hang out with you) Let her know your going out with a slam dunk on NYE because.... its NYE & let her hang out with her mom on NYE looking at facebook pictures.
Posted by 1LoudTideFan
Member since May 2008
3596 posts
Posted on 12/13/14 at 6:51 am to
if you ignore me, i'm going to ignore you more.

if you try to get back at me, you better make it worth my time.

these things are decided pretty early on in the game. let the line run a little, but if it keeps running you just gotta cut it.
Posted by Bestbank Tiger
Premium Member
Member since Jan 2005
70923 posts
Posted on 12/13/14 at 8:14 am to
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Exactly. I wish I had a sounding board when I was being an idiot dealing with women.


You need some women who are just friends. Married women or women whose personalities are completely incompatible with yours are the ideal candidates for that.
Posted by CBandits82
Lurker since May 2008
Member since May 2012
54067 posts
Posted on 12/14/14 at 7:57 am to
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