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OT dating experts...Need your advice trying...
Posted on 12/12/14 at 1:10 pm
Posted on 12/12/14 at 1:10 pm
....to figure out a woman that I kinda like and I've been out with a few times now. For starters, I should mention that she grew up here and moved back here after living several years out West. She had a serious boyfriend of 4 years when she lived out there that she still keeps in contact with. She was clear about him when we first met which I appreciated.
So, I've been out with her 4 or 5 times including a recent trip to Biloxi and even New Orleans. She has even invited me to hang out with her friends. We've kissed and have even shacked up with nothing but kissing and cuddling. So anyway, she texts me the other day how she had a great time with me and wished we could have made it to New Orleans (she unsuccessfully tried to get us tickets to a show last minute while in Biloxi). I texted her maybe next time we could make it happen. She suggests she was available to be my NYE date if I needed one. I text back that a suggestion that we make it happen. She then texts back that she made plans to go to a concert out of the area for NYE. I played it cool but decided to go silent on her. We'll after a few days of no texts she texts me "hang out next week?" last night. I usually respond within at least 3 or 4 hours but decided to ignore her text. She texts me again about an hour ago "I'm going to miss my PIC this weekend". PIC = partner in crime btw. Before she suggested the NYE date she made an unusual comment that her mother thought I was cute. I've never met her mother nor taken pictures with her which suggests she is showing her mother facebook pictures of me. I should also mention that I told her about someone else I had been seeing that is chasing me hard. The other woman is really cool and we've become very good friends although she has made it clear she wants more.
Back to the first girl who I want, she always responds to my texts but the last two texts are the first time in the few weeks we've known each other where she has been going out of her way to contact me. Should I continue to ignore her or respond to her request to hang out next week? Is this woman starting to chase me? Ladies of the OT, any advice? ;)
So, I've been out with her 4 or 5 times including a recent trip to Biloxi and even New Orleans. She has even invited me to hang out with her friends. We've kissed and have even shacked up with nothing but kissing and cuddling. So anyway, she texts me the other day how she had a great time with me and wished we could have made it to New Orleans (she unsuccessfully tried to get us tickets to a show last minute while in Biloxi). I texted her maybe next time we could make it happen. She suggests she was available to be my NYE date if I needed one. I text back that a suggestion that we make it happen. She then texts back that she made plans to go to a concert out of the area for NYE. I played it cool but decided to go silent on her. We'll after a few days of no texts she texts me "hang out next week?" last night. I usually respond within at least 3 or 4 hours but decided to ignore her text. She texts me again about an hour ago "I'm going to miss my PIC this weekend". PIC = partner in crime btw. Before she suggested the NYE date she made an unusual comment that her mother thought I was cute. I've never met her mother nor taken pictures with her which suggests she is showing her mother facebook pictures of me. I should also mention that I told her about someone else I had been seeing that is chasing me hard. The other woman is really cool and we've become very good friends although she has made it clear she wants more.
Back to the first girl who I want, she always responds to my texts but the last two texts are the first time in the few weeks we've known each other where she has been going out of her way to contact me. Should I continue to ignore her or respond to her request to hang out next week? Is this woman starting to chase me? Ladies of the OT, any advice? ;)
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Posted on 12/12/14 at 1:11 pm to Govt Tide
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She texts me again about an hour ago "I'm going to miss my PIC this weekend". PIC = partner in crime btw
Prayers for the friend zone
Posted on 12/12/14 at 1:12 pm to Govt Tide
Go frick her
Posted on 12/12/14 at 1:12 pm to Govt Tide
dude, you are a fricking sociopath
Posted on 12/12/14 at 1:13 pm to Govt Tide
Posted on 12/12/14 at 1:13 pm to Govt Tide
Wait, you ignored her and she texts back twice with some kind of "I miss you" or "Let's hang out" and you are wondering if you should keep it going with her?
YES YOU DOPE
YES YOU DOPE
Posted on 12/12/14 at 1:14 pm to Govt Tide
Sounds like she's playing with you while having fun but not committing. If you are ok with this potentially turning into nothing, then have fun. If you actually like her, you need to lock it up now. But don't be surprised if she backs out of that. Sounds like she's on the edge and is just keeping it casual or really likes you and your late on making the move.
Go for it.
Go for it.
Posted on 12/12/14 at 1:15 pm to Govt Tide
Tell her you already have plans.
Posted on 12/12/14 at 1:15 pm to Govt Tide
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We've kissed and have even shacked up with nothing but kissing and cuddling
Posted on 12/12/14 at 1:15 pm to Govt Tide
1) PIIHB
2) reply to her texts. Don't be an a-hole if you like her and don't lead her on if you dont.
I hate that people treat other people like that and any self respecting person just moves on if they get treated like that. Everyone looks at my relationships and ask how I never get in fights. It starts out at the beginning. Mutual respect is a must.
2) reply to her texts. Don't be an a-hole if you like her and don't lead her on if you dont.
I hate that people treat other people like that and any self respecting person just moves on if they get treated like that. Everyone looks at my relationships and ask how I never get in fights. It starts out at the beginning. Mutual respect is a must.
Posted on 12/12/14 at 1:16 pm to Govt Tide
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Should I continue to ignore her or respond to her request to hang out next week? Is this woman starting to chase me? Ladies of the OT, any advice? ;)
I dont understand your question... do you want to keep seeing this girl or not? She asks to hang out and you decide to ignore her? If you like her and want to see her then see her, dont act like a girl in this situation. If you dont then tell her you have other plans
ETA: for only hanging out a few times and just kissing each other, you really are over thinking this wayyy too much
This post was edited on 12/12/14 at 1:18 pm
Posted on 12/12/14 at 1:16 pm to DirtyMikeandtheBoys
quote:if true, he will never be at a loss of company.
dude, you are a fricking sociopath
Posted on 12/12/14 at 1:17 pm to Govt Tide
Cuddle buddies 4 life
Posted on 12/12/14 at 1:17 pm to Govt Tide
jesus... you fricking people.
i dont understand the "ignoring text" game some of you play.
a real man doesn't need a game to pretend to give them "the upper hand".
i dont understand the "ignoring text" game some of you play.
a real man doesn't need a game to pretend to give them "the upper hand".
Posted on 12/12/14 at 1:17 pm to TH03
"Prayers for the friend zone"
That's kinda what I figured and I'm actually kinda cool with it. Yes, I am attracted to her but frankly I genuinely like hanging out with her as friends. I kind of friend zoned her too so I'm partly to blame.
It's tricky to pull off, but I'm a firm believer you can work your way out of the friend zone if you're smart enough. That's kinda where I'm coming from with my last two questions. :)
That's kinda what I figured and I'm actually kinda cool with it. Yes, I am attracted to her but frankly I genuinely like hanging out with her as friends. I kind of friend zoned her too so I'm partly to blame.
It's tricky to pull off, but I'm a firm believer you can work your way out of the friend zone if you're smart enough. That's kinda where I'm coming from with my last two questions. :)
Posted on 12/12/14 at 1:17 pm to Govt Tide
For real though. You are a part of a game.
If you want this relationship you need to sit her down and say
"look, ho. I aint into the fricking mind games. Either we both want this or we don't. Before we get up from this table we'll both have a clear understanding of each others position"
good luck
If you want this relationship you need to sit her down and say
"look, ho. I aint into the fricking mind games. Either we both want this or we don't. Before we get up from this table we'll both have a clear understanding of each others position"
good luck
Posted on 12/12/14 at 1:18 pm to Govt Tide
quote:
We've kissed and have even shacked up with nothing but kissing and cuddling.
lame
Posted on 12/12/14 at 1:18 pm to Govt Tide
quote:
have even shacked up with nothing but kissing and cuddling.
How does this even happen?
Posted on 12/12/14 at 1:18 pm to Govt Tide
Sometimes, I shudder when I read posts on this board wondering if people that post here are completely unable to function naturally in the real world. I have to say, this is one of those times that I shuddered.
(unless you are 11 years old, and if that's the case, I apologize for shuddering)
(unless you are 11 years old, and if that's the case, I apologize for shuddering)
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