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re: Ever wanted it to just all go away?
Posted on 5/29/17 at 2:30 pm to Ted2010
Posted on 5/29/17 at 2:30 pm to Ted2010
Edit: Sorry, man.
I don't think either of your sons would want you to feel this way about their passing and I've known several people who did end it all. It might have helped themselves but it sure made a bad situation even worse for those left behind.
I don't think either of your sons would want you to feel this way about their passing and I've known several people who did end it all. It might have helped themselves but it sure made a bad situation even worse for those left behind.
This post was edited on 5/29/17 at 3:44 pm
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Posted on 5/29/17 at 2:35 pm to HarryBalzack
Dudes got some real pain, dickhead. Follow the thread before hunting and pecking.
Posted on 5/29/17 at 2:37 pm to Ted2010
Glad you checked in and read all the positive responses. Hope you get help and feel better soon
Posted on 5/29/17 at 3:55 pm to Ted2010
Remember it's down the road not across the street
Posted on 5/29/17 at 4:00 pm to deltaland
What's the point of a comment like that?
Posted on 5/29/17 at 4:01 pm to deltaland
quote:man you're so fricking cool
deltaland
Posted on 5/29/17 at 4:54 pm to SuperSaint
Thanks all. Some great folks here. Some not so good. But that is the OT. Some asked me to reach out to them. I will do so.
Posted on 5/29/17 at 4:56 pm to peaster68
You've be a solid friend Peaster. 
Posted on 5/29/17 at 4:59 pm to touchdownjeebus
You left your number but I missed getting it. When is a good time to call you. Ill make a back channel email for you to give it again if you want to.
This post was edited on 5/29/17 at 5:00 pm
Posted on 5/29/17 at 4:59 pm to Ted2010
Focus on the positive posts not the peckerheads.
Best of luck man. You got this!
Best of luck man. You got this!
Posted on 5/29/17 at 5:01 pm to Ted2010
I'm so sorry for you losses.
If grief is the issue weighing on you the most, there is a great book called "on death and dying" by Elizabeth kubler ross.
It is only 80 pages but really explains the stages of grief and coping. It's a very pragmatic approach to a overwhelmingly complex emotion.
If grief is the issue weighing on you the most, there is a great book called "on death and dying" by Elizabeth kubler ross.
It is only 80 pages but really explains the stages of grief and coping. It's a very pragmatic approach to a overwhelmingly complex emotion.
Posted on 5/29/17 at 5:01 pm to Swagga
quote:
Sounds like you need to talk to someone that's not the OT. Keep strong baw.
Posted on 5/29/17 at 5:06 pm to Ted2010
They're a handful of posters that have lost young ones like us on the OT. You will end up getting to know who they are and it's refreshing to know other people know how you feel. It's horrible that others have to endure the same pain but it's good to have some support when you fall.
This post was edited on 5/29/17 at 5:07 pm
Posted on 5/29/17 at 5:46 pm to Ted2010
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I've buried two of my sons.
I know your pain. I've buried one. Passed in my arms. Tragic accident. In that moment I knew I was going to kill myself. I've been reading and searching everywhere for peace. A peace I fear will never come. But one thing I read said this.."our wise father in heaven knows when we need things. Don't run out ahead of him. When the time comes that some of us will have to die, you will look into your heart and find the strength you need-just in time."
I cry everyday and see the world through different eyes now. I still have a lot of pain in the present. You have to hang on. I have other small children and wife that I know their worlds would crash if I left this world. But also try to think of the love you may miss out on if you go. I'm sure there are those that care and need you.
I believe in something bigger. Find faith in your purpose. DO NOT give up! "Memories are not the key to the past, but to the future. The experiences of our lives, when we let God use them, become the mysterious and perfect preparation for the work he will give us to do."
Posted on 5/29/17 at 5:46 pm to HoustonChick86
HC, I am sorry to hear this.
And you are correct, there are people willing to help.
Several years ago I was dealing with depression and anxiety. When I had my first anxiety attack, I thought I was having a heart attack. After it happened two more times I decided I needed to go to the doctor. At that time, I was also in a state of depression. The way I felt, there was nothing that someone could tell me that would make me feel better and I made myself feel worse. There were days when I would lay in bed more of the day and the fact that I didn't accomplish anything or wasn't in contact with anyone just made it worse.
I had to force myself to get up and get out, but after I went to the doctor. It took a little while but I got things sorted out. I can imagine what this guy is going through, but it does get better. Take advantage of the thread and contact those who are offering. You can contact me, but I am sure the others can help much better than I can.
And to the people who are being complete assholes. I know this is the OT and things are rarely serious around here, but when it comes to something like this, you really have no idea what type of meaning your words could have.
And you are correct, there are people willing to help.
Several years ago I was dealing with depression and anxiety. When I had my first anxiety attack, I thought I was having a heart attack. After it happened two more times I decided I needed to go to the doctor. At that time, I was also in a state of depression. The way I felt, there was nothing that someone could tell me that would make me feel better and I made myself feel worse. There were days when I would lay in bed more of the day and the fact that I didn't accomplish anything or wasn't in contact with anyone just made it worse.
I had to force myself to get up and get out, but after I went to the doctor. It took a little while but I got things sorted out. I can imagine what this guy is going through, but it does get better. Take advantage of the thread and contact those who are offering. You can contact me, but I am sure the others can help much better than I can.
And to the people who are being complete assholes. I know this is the OT and things are rarely serious around here, but when it comes to something like this, you really have no idea what type of meaning your words could have.
Posted on 5/29/17 at 5:56 pm to Ted2010
Everyday. I'd kill myself but I don't want to go to hell.
Posted on 5/29/17 at 5:56 pm to Ted2010
Roll Tide?
Posted on 5/29/17 at 6:09 pm to Ted2010
Thanks for checking in Ted. I don't have much advice to offer hang in there and know that people do care.
Posted on 5/29/17 at 6:10 pm to Ted2010
Ted, I had a major problem with my son about 2 years ago and posted on the OT. Many people offered help. I actually reached out to one and He helped save my son's life. I am eternally grateful. Please reach out to one of these guys. Or somebody. Professionals are helpful in these situations.
Praying for you.
Praying for you.
Posted on 5/29/17 at 6:11 pm to OweO
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And you are correct, there are people willing to help.
Having those thoughts terrified me. Luckily I didn't act on it and told someone I needed help. I did end up in the ER and then spent a week in a behavioral hospital. It was worth it. It forced me to talk about my problems and showed me how many people cared about me.
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