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Leaving a job with class

Posted on 5/20/16 at 6:22 pm
Posted by tigercross
Member since Feb 2008
4918 posts
Posted on 5/20/16 at 6:22 pm
I am currently in my first job out of grad school. I've been in the position for two years. Today I received an offer from a competitor firm--35% pay increase.

I've never left a job before, so I am wondering about proper protocol for putting in notice. I'm planning on putting in my two weeks and sticking around to hand off all of my stuff to other members of my team. Is verbal notice sufficient, or should I put something in writing? What is the best way to navigate this conversation? I'm on good terms with the current employer and enjoy my current position, but the money is too much to pass up and I don't think my current employer could match it (even if they made a counteroffer, I'm not sure how I would feel about accepting).

In the past year, several members of our team have left for competitors and been allowed to work their two weeks. I understand that is slightly abnormal, so I thought I would include that bit.
Posted by Teddy Ruxpin
Member since Oct 2006
39578 posts
Posted on 5/20/16 at 6:38 pm to
My wife left her firm by getting up, walking to her boss, and telling him.

She was appreciative of the opportunity she was given and helped find a replacement while they settled on an end date that worked for every one.

The boss even threw a party for her at their nice Uptown NO house.

Be a professional and if they are professionals, it will be fine. If they are not, be glad you left.
This post was edited on 5/20/16 at 6:39 pm
Posted by foshizzle
Washington DC metro
Member since Mar 2008
40599 posts
Posted on 5/20/16 at 6:41 pm to
quote:

Be a professional and if they are professionals, it will be fine. If they are not, be glad you left.


This.

It is not at all unusual for someone to do some exploring in the early years of a career, in fact I think it's a great idea. Good firms understand this.

The place where I work closely follows this policy and we wind up hiring back a good number of them 2-3 years later. The ones we wanted, that is.
Posted by HeadyMurphey
Los Santos
Member since Jan 2008
17184 posts
Posted on 5/20/16 at 7:12 pm to
Type up a letter, deliver in person and tell your boss verbally. Let them know you will help make the transition as easy as possible. Do not accept a counter offer
Posted by kywildcatfanone
Wildcat Country!
Member since Oct 2012
119123 posts
Posted on 5/20/16 at 7:21 pm to
quote:

Type up a letter, deliver in person and tell your boss verbally. Let them know you will help make the transition as easy as possible. Do not accept a counter offer


I agree with this.
Posted by Doc Fenton
New York, NY
Member since Feb 2007
52698 posts
Posted on 5/21/16 at 5:38 am to
There was a pretty good article on this subject in Forbes about a week-and-a-half ago: " Ten Things Never To Say As You Quit Your Job."
Posted by poochie
Houma, la
Member since Apr 2007
6211 posts
Posted on 5/21/16 at 6:34 am to
Since this is your first real job, you think it's the toughest thing ever. I sure did when I quit. I even told my dad "this is the hardest thing il ever have to do". He just laughed. It's not that big of a deal in the grand scheme of things. Just be cordial and professional and to the point. Let them know you've decided to pursue a position with another company. Don't get into where you're going or why you're leaving. Less is more. Good luck.
Posted by LSU alum wannabe
Katy, TX
Member since Jan 2004
26991 posts
Posted on 5/21/16 at 9:02 am to
quote:

Type up a letter, deliver in person and tell your boss verbally. Let them know you will help make the transition


This.

And what the guy above this said. If THEY are professional they will act professional. Happens all the time.

2 week notice and letter both to boss and HR. Keep a copy for yourself. Also, can send email as well so there is a paper trail of receiving notice, if you think someone will be shitty.

If you do all of these things they may try and match the other offer. If that is something you consider.

You always have to put YOURSELF in the best situation. That company would do the same. Just do it the right way, as it sounds like you want to do.
Posted by Lsut81
Member since Jun 2005
80150 posts
Posted on 5/21/16 at 9:10 am to
quote:

I've never left a job before, so I am wondering about proper protocol for putting in notice.


Ensure that you have passed all relevant background/drug tests with new employer prior to putting in your two weeks.

Type up a letter of resignation, thanking them for the opportunity.. Deliver to boss in person and let him know how appreciative you are and that you are committed to finishing out your two weeks.

Should be no issue. Don't be surprised to get a counter from your current employer. Ensure you think through that should it happen. Would you stay at your current employer for the same money? Would you stay at your current for slightly less than new employer? Have that all figured out.
Posted by cwill
Member since Jan 2005
54752 posts
Posted on 5/21/16 at 10:35 am to
You should type a resignation letter which states your final day 2 weeks out. Then find a time to talk to your boss...just sit down, hand over the letter and tell him. You probably discuss it for 15 minutes.
Posted by gpburdell
ATL
Member since Jun 2015
1422 posts
Posted on 5/21/16 at 1:27 pm to
quote:

Do not accept a counter offer


I think it depends on the reason for leaving. If it's purely about money and they counter/match then maybe it makes sense to stay. Especially if your seniority earns you extra vacation, etc. If it's also about opportunity or quality of life then I'd agree.

I graduated and started working right before the .com bubble burst. So I didn't see any big raises/promotions for a few years. When I started looking around, I got an offer for a 50% raise. Most companies won't match such a big raise anyway, but exceptions can always be made. My boss's boss had to get the CFO involved and they matched the offer and I stayed for a few more years.

I was glad I stayed as I was working on some significant projects that I got to see through to the end. From those years, I really built my reputation and know that I could always go back if I wanted to. Even better is that many of those people I worked with have gone to other companies which now give me an in there.



Posted by b-rab2
N. Louisiana
Member since Dec 2005
12576 posts
Posted on 5/21/16 at 2:18 pm to
Is it bad to use your final two weeks with a company and use your vacation? Given you have no work to pass off....
Posted by b-rab2
N. Louisiana
Member since Dec 2005
12576 posts
Posted on 5/22/16 at 1:49 pm to
Bump?
Posted by tigercross
Member since Feb 2008
4918 posts
Posted on 5/22/16 at 6:54 pm to
Thanks, y'all. Pretty much what I expected.

Posted by Overbrook
Member since May 2013
6088 posts
Posted on 5/23/16 at 7:56 am to
If it's a white collar professional/career job (which it sounds like it is), 2 weeks notice is light. 3 weeks or a month.
Posted by Jorts R Us
Member since Aug 2013
14812 posts
Posted on 5/23/16 at 9:10 am to
Don't sweat it. I thought it was Earth-shattering when I left my first job too, but it was no sweat. Do what is right for you and resist any temptation to be a jackass on the way out. Like others have said, type up a latter and tell your boss in person. Don't accept a counter offer and smile on your way out.
Posted by TigerRob20
Baton Rouge
Member since Nov 2008
3732 posts
Posted on 5/23/16 at 11:37 am to
quote:

Since this is your first real job, you think it's the toughest thing ever. I sure did when I quit. I even told my dad "this is the hardest thing il ever have to do". He just laughed. It's not that big of a deal in the grand scheme of things. Just be cordial and professional and to the point. Let them know you've decided to pursue a position with another company. Don't get into where you're going or why you're leaving. Less is more. Good luck.



This completely. Now I realize how easy it was to do so. Of course, both sides were professional and cordial. And it was a great decision for a number of reasons.

Posted by Hog on the Hill
AR
Member since Jun 2009
13389 posts
Posted on 5/23/16 at 1:32 pm to
I don't understand why people are saying not to accept a counter offer. If you don't like the job, then obviously don't even consider a counter offer. But if you like it, and you're leaving for the money, I don't see why you shouldn't accept a competitive counter.

Are you paranoid about taking a counter offer and then getting fired as soon as they find someone to replace you?

edit: Again, if you're looking around because you aren't happy in your job, then yeah, you shouldn't accept a counter offer. It probably won't fix the problems you were having, unless there's an agreement to move you into a new position or otherwise change your circumstances that are more suitable for you.

But if you were looking around because you think you're worth more than you're being paid, I don't see why you wouldn't consider taking a counter offer.
This post was edited on 5/23/16 at 1:38 pm
Posted by CHiPs25
ATL
Member since Apr 2014
2897 posts
Posted on 5/23/16 at 2:30 pm to
quote:

I don't understand why people are saying not to accept a counter offer.


Because this puts you on the first list if there were layoffs. They now know that you're looking elsewhere to work and they won't be scared to cut you loose at their first chance.

I just quit a job a month or so ago that I loved. I was nervous to tell my boss because I hate disappointing anyone but as soon as I told him and we discussed it, he was cool and I was relieved.
Posted by BeerMoney
Baton Rouge
Member since Jul 2012
8375 posts
Posted on 5/23/16 at 2:48 pm to
I've accepted a counter in the past and it worked out. I'd warned my employer that I and others were underpaid and that they needed to adjust. They refused to give me an adjustment so I went out and got an offer for 10% higher than I asked to be adjusted to. My employer tried to counter with a match so I had them beat it by 5% because the new company appeared to have better benefits.(and I was a little pissed)

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