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Go down to Calle Ocho and hit up Ball & Chain and Sanguiche. That ought to kill some time and not have you running all over the place. But lots more spots. Cafe La Trova is also worth a visit but assume baseball game is at night, takes that out of play somewhat.
Years ago I spent a day with him for a magazine article. It was pretty much the height of his short ascendancy. We went to that race track on the West Bank to look at his race cars (one named Stella one named Stanley), his “paint factory” in mid city where he produced base sauces, stocks, and other staples for each restaurant, Stanley and then back to Stella. It was a wild day and insight into sometimes people can have too many ideas.
To be fair, I think Florida could probably hold down the entire top 5 but for sake of the question spreading around the south.
Sanibel isn’t ritzy but it is awesome. Naples is way more ritzy in traditional sense. Now the homes on Captiva are something to see.
Good question.
One of the islands around Charleston, probably Kiawah, Sea Island, The Breakers, Take your pick of somewhere in Miami Boca area (but I personally like The Biltmore hotel- not on beach though), and the Gasparilla Inn on Boca Grande.

Probably a place in the keys that could be up there as well. Honorable mention to The Grand Hotel in Fairhope just because it’s a great, old property.
Can you just fly in the day before, spend the night in NYC, and make chicken salad here?
Jim Brewer has a great, sentimental bit about the music at Chinese places.
What champagne house? Vintage?

Only two options. It’s either bad or good. And only one way to find out. Park it in a fridge for a week or so. Then let it sit out for about 20 minutes. Open her up and let it rip.
It would be the Centurion Lounge. But need a platinum Amex to get in. Otherwise I’m sure there are some priority pass lounge (but again need access via credit card). Been in some nice admirals clubs in DFW (but also need to be flying American + access).
Lexington VA not too far from there. They’ve renamed the chapel and hidden the tomb but can see REL financing place and an amazing sarcophagus of him lying in repose. Great Main street, house mountain, VMI and WL.

re: Italy Travel with Kids

Posted by BlackenedOut on 7/6/26 at 1:50 pm to
Do it.

Would allow 10 days to give time to breath and adjust, 12-14 days ideal. Certainly can do it for less, but since looking to plan ahead, make it count.

Steer away from trying to see everything. Pick 2 maybe 3 cities. Book some private guided tours of the big things (last summer, Vatican, etc). You will spend a little bit more person but get infinitely more out of a private guided tour.

Hotel or Air BnB kind of all comes out in the wash with a group that big but do whatever works best for you. Sounds like multiple families so highly recommend you build in space and time apart. No matter how well you get along with people, you will want some time to yourself.

Personally I really like Venice, Milan, and Rome for the big stops in Italy. But smaller places like Modena and small hill towns are fantastic. Go to a few places off the beaten path.
Flights

Booked the LAX-NRT 5th freedom on Singapore Air. Great flight, incredible business class and reward of around 105k-120k per person plus minimal taxes and fees. Economy and premium economy lots of award availability as well.

Did 4 nights in Tokyo, 2 in Kanazawa, 2 in Takayama, 2 nights in Kyoto, and a final night in Tokyo.

Kanazawa was our favorite city. But really all were great. Took a while to warm up to Kyoto as it is very crowded and reminded us of a Florence or the like. But found its charms.

Here is my single best tip. Do not worry about where you eat. The food is by and large really great no matter where you go. Don’t wait in line for the viral pancake or sandwich place. Just go to the place next door. The best sashimi is going to be in some market where you choose your cut and the slice it for you right there.

Beautiful country, wonderful people. Go.

re: Owning Beach House In Florida

Posted by BlackenedOut on 6/28/26 at 6:47 pm to
Should add that I love Sanibel and that piece of earth in general. Naples one hour. Miami 2-2.5 hours away. Just tons to do or do nothing at all.

But just wouldn’t work for family to live there right now.

re: Owning Beach House In Florida

Posted by BlackenedOut on 6/28/26 at 2:46 pm to
For sale on Zillow. Look for a three bedroom three bath in Beachview Estates with a big pool in the 1300 block of par view.

re: Owning Beach House In Florida

Posted by BlackenedOut on 6/28/26 at 9:54 am to
Have one not by choice. Moved to Sanibel island in 2020. Renovated a house. Lived there about 14 months post renovation before Ian put just its tip in and had to redo entire first floor. Haven’t been able to sell it. Had a long term renter. She left. Tried to sell again. No dice. Rent it out to snowbirds for season. Would love to spend more time down there but it’s 12 hour drive.

City of Sanibel limits home STRs to 28 nights or more. Great for high season. Doesn’t work for off season.

Want to buy it?

re: Full Moon Party in BVI

Posted by BlackenedOut on 6/15/26 at 8:37 pm to
Moons ago there used to be parties at a place called the Bomba Shack, which was a beachside shack run by a guy named Bomba. Bomba was very large and sort of handsy with women who would ask to take photos wiry him. Bomba would make Bomba tea which was supposed to be some sort of magic mushroom punch. These parties took place on full moon nights and all the charterheads, sailors, some locals, would all head out and drink a lot of this punch and a lot of rum. The parties were a lot of fun but I don’t think the punch did anything. I do recall one time a baking sheet of mushrooms that you could sample from if so desired.

All of this is a way to say, the party is fun but it doesn’t have much to do with the full moon (although that is when the parties are most notorious).
Some of the below not exactly where you are staying but easy Uber or cab Mister 01 Pizza
Ball & Chain
Cafe La Trova
Mother Wolf
I went into new Elio’s yesterday afternoon, which even in the doldrums of summer always had a bit of activity on a Thursday. A tasting, Tim wanting you to try something, or get you a deal on some cases, but definitely people in there buying booze. Was a ghost town. So strange.

Don’t think enough people are realizing the impact of GLP1s both on booze consumption and more critically, restaurant industry. Time for common sense GLP1 control!
As an initial matter, what you chasing isn’t really a recipe. It’s a memory. Any recipe provided if not served in the Serops or Albasha environment is going to fail to live up to what you want.

Shaya recipe great, Zahav better. But both of those are a much smoother hummus than I remember from places in BR and probably more tahini making it smoother. You need a really powerful blender or food processor and to let it go for 2-3 minutes.

Paul Kahan from blackbird, avec, etc has a great and easy recipe I use. It’s one can of chickpeas with 50% or so of the water drained. 1/4 cup of tahin, garlic clove, lemon juice and let her rip.

re: Travelling France

Posted by BlackenedOut on 5/27/26 at 3:41 am to
Champagne region very easy from Paris as a day trip and there are quite a few local guides. They will pick you up and take you to some lesser known houses but could also just visit the grande dames.

Beaune, and burgundy and Beaujolais, areas also very easy to reach from Paris by train. And then just use Turo to use a car and drive around. Did this last summer and it was aces.

Rhône a bit further afield but same as above. Train it. Then grab a car.

It’s awesome.