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re: Italy Travel with Kids

Posted by BlackenedOut on 7/6/26 at 1:50 pm to
Do it.

Would allow 10 days to give time to breath and adjust, 12-14 days ideal. Certainly can do it for less, but since looking to plan ahead, make it count.

Steer away from trying to see everything. Pick 2 maybe 3 cities. Book some private guided tours of the big things (last summer, Vatican, etc). You will spend a little bit more person but get infinitely more out of a private guided tour.

Hotel or Air BnB kind of all comes out in the wash with a group that big but do whatever works best for you. Sounds like multiple families so highly recommend you build in space and time apart. No matter how well you get along with people, you will want some time to yourself.

Personally I really like Venice, Milan, and Rome for the big stops in Italy. But smaller places like Modena and small hill towns are fantastic. Go to a few places off the beaten path.
Flights

Booked the LAX-NRT 5th freedom on Singapore Air. Great flight, incredible business class and reward of around 105k-120k per person plus minimal taxes and fees. Economy and premium economy lots of award availability as well.

Did 4 nights in Tokyo, 2 in Kanazawa, 2 in Takayama, 2 nights in Kyoto, and a final night in Tokyo.

Kanazawa was our favorite city. But really all were great. Took a while to warm up to Kyoto as it is very crowded and reminded us of a Florence or the like. But found its charms.

Here is my single best tip. Do not worry about where you eat. The food is by and large really great no matter where you go. Don’t wait in line for the viral pancake or sandwich place. Just go to the place next door. The best sashimi is going to be in some market where you choose your cut and the slice it for you right there.

Beautiful country, wonderful people. Go.

re: Owning Beach House In Florida

Posted by BlackenedOut on 6/28/26 at 6:47 pm to
Should add that I love Sanibel and that piece of earth in general. Naples one hour. Miami 2-2.5 hours away. Just tons to do or do nothing at all.

But just wouldn’t work for family to live there right now.

re: Owning Beach House In Florida

Posted by BlackenedOut on 6/28/26 at 2:46 pm to
For sale on Zillow. Look for a three bedroom three bath in Beachview Estates with a big pool in the 1300 block of par view.

re: Owning Beach House In Florida

Posted by BlackenedOut on 6/28/26 at 9:54 am to
Have one not by choice. Moved to Sanibel island in 2020. Renovated a house. Lived there about 14 months post renovation before Ian put just its tip in and had to redo entire first floor. Haven’t been able to sell it. Had a long term renter. She left. Tried to sell again. No dice. Rent it out to snowbirds for season. Would love to spend more time down there but it’s 12 hour drive.

City of Sanibel limits home STRs to 28 nights or more. Great for high season. Doesn’t work for off season.

Want to buy it?

re: Full Moon Party in BVI

Posted by BlackenedOut on 6/15/26 at 8:37 pm to
Moons ago there used to be parties at a place called the Bomba Shack, which was a beachside shack run by a guy named Bomba. Bomba was very large and sort of handsy with women who would ask to take photos wiry him. Bomba would make Bomba tea which was supposed to be some sort of magic mushroom punch. These parties took place on full moon nights and all the charterheads, sailors, some locals, would all head out and drink a lot of this punch and a lot of rum. The parties were a lot of fun but I don’t think the punch did anything. I do recall one time a baking sheet of mushrooms that you could sample from if so desired.

All of this is a way to say, the party is fun but it doesn’t have much to do with the full moon (although that is when the parties are most notorious).
Some of the below not exactly where you are staying but easy Uber or cab Mister 01 Pizza
Ball & Chain
Cafe La Trova
Mother Wolf
I went into new Elio’s yesterday afternoon, which even in the doldrums of summer always had a bit of activity on a Thursday. A tasting, Tim wanting you to try something, or get you a deal on some cases, but definitely people in there buying booze. Was a ghost town. So strange.

Don’t think enough people are realizing the impact of GLP1s both on booze consumption and more critically, restaurant industry. Time for common sense GLP1 control!
As an initial matter, what you chasing isn’t really a recipe. It’s a memory. Any recipe provided if not served in the Serops or Albasha environment is going to fail to live up to what you want.

Shaya recipe great, Zahav better. But both of those are a much smoother hummus than I remember from places in BR and probably more tahini making it smoother. You need a really powerful blender or food processor and to let it go for 2-3 minutes.

Paul Kahan from blackbird, avec, etc has a great and easy recipe I use. It’s one can of chickpeas with 50% or so of the water drained. 1/4 cup of tahin, garlic clove, lemon juice and let her rip.

re: Travelling France

Posted by BlackenedOut on 5/27/26 at 3:41 am to
Champagne region very easy from Paris as a day trip and there are quite a few local guides. They will pick you up and take you to some lesser known houses but could also just visit the grande dames.

Beaune, and burgundy and Beaujolais, areas also very easy to reach from Paris by train. And then just use Turo to use a car and drive around. Did this last summer and it was aces.

Rhône a bit further afield but same as above. Train it. Then grab a car.

It’s awesome.

re: Commander's Palace Eats

Posted by BlackenedOut on 5/8/26 at 5:47 pm to
Commanders has always been hit or mostly miss for me. The dishes all have one or two too many elements. But the classics, turtle soup, shrimp Henican, whatever entree sounds most boring, and the desserts are all pretty solid.

I don’t believe they do the 25 cent martinis at dinner. And even if they did you are better off ordering one of the real martinis or a sazerac (which they do a great job with). Those 25 cent rotgut martinis aren’t worth it. Incredible wine list as well.

re: Home Winemaking

Posted by BlackenedOut on 5/5/26 at 6:00 pm to
You could take whatever you might invest in this foolhardy errand and just buy some really nice wine.
Congrats on TFL reservation. A late lunch early dinner in spring should be perfect. It really is a special place although I don’t think I could do a later dinner there after a day of wine tasting.

For auberge, just toss a blazer on. Pretty much is the cheat code for always looking dressed appropriately, whatever that means wherever you are.

ETA for TFL the wine list is intimidating and overwhelming. Really lean on the sommelier here it’s what they live for. All I said was “here is our wine budget, here is what we generally like to drink, but you figure it out”

re: Looking for Tampa Recs

Posted by BlackenedOut on 5/1/26 at 3:30 pm to
Charley’s is great as well. Better steaks than Bern’s but give nod to Bern’s for total experience. Haven’t been to new Charley’s location (or if it’s opened yet).
Berns as mentioned. Oak and Ola is fantastic, run by Anne Kearney who used to own Peristyle in New Orleans (and won a James Beard award while there). Also really like Olivia and Rocca for Italian.

Oxford Exchange is a nice little coffee shop/gift store place. Worth a stop if in the area.

St. Pete’s Mazzaros is a near Italian market and sandwich selection with ambiance and an enormous collection of Italian wines.
If booking with miles, I’ll book 330 days out or whenever it opens. If paying cash, I’ll see alerts.
Are you asking about travel insurance like if you miss a flight, or have to cancel the trip?

Personally have never found that worth it. Most hotels and airfare let you cancel within a 1-2 notice and or cancel and receive a credit. For experiences like guides, those also can be canceled/changed with minimal stress or $.

Also those insurance “policies” basically don’t let you cancel and get a payout outside of very extreme conditions. In short it’s a scam.

If talking about insurance to drive a rented car, that’s a different question but also one not worth worrying about in general.

re: Venice Italy Recs.

Posted by BlackenedOut on 4/17/26 at 5:38 pm to
Rons if great wine bars serving cichetti in the northwest quadrant which is the old Jewish ghetto. Also bar All’Arco, Cantina di Moro, and Al Merca. Gelateria Nico.

Love Venice. But get out of St. Marks, which is beautiful but don’t spend money around there.
Loved Sanibel (and I have a house to sell you) but might be a little sleepy depending on your age. Naples is also great.

re: Hogs for the Cause checkin

Posted by BlackenedOut on 4/4/26 at 10:30 am to
What a blast from the past. That appears to be Hogs 4, which took place on the frisbee golf course near the administration building in city park. It rained like hell for the 2-3 days before only stopping Friday morning. River parish truck got stuck, the cab bringing in the stage got stuck, and was generally a quagmire. Company Burger team won grand champ. Dr. John showed up to play with voices of the wetlands all stars (and would refer to event later as Dogs for the Cause), and some hobos were sleeping in a “squat” in the backstage area, they were friendly folks.

Good times.
Aix has a great Roman coliseum, charming streets and a nice entry point to the south of France. Not far from lots of cool villages and great wine. And Avignon worth a visit.

ETA sorry missed cruise and limited timeframe. Think about 11 hours in Aix is sufficient to see the city without breaking a sweat trying to do other things.