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I fully understand where you are coming from. I am older than you. Where you went wrong was to ask that question here. Understand that most respondents here are young. Don’t expect them to understand your point of view. They are not there yet. No disrespect. Just facts. That being said, don’t feel the need to respond to every response. Take it with a grain of salt. If you want to see nice eye candy, go to places like restaurant bars. I usually like the scenery at coffee shops since I don’t drink. Stop defending yourself. You are normal. Just older than who you are trying to explain to.

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Thanks man. No disrespect taken at all. This will be my last post.

I know responding was futile. I was having fun. Plus, it was painful because some of those posts reminded me of my younger years when I missed out.

Take care.

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The fact you brought up a threesome tells me that you AREN'T happily married

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And tell me professor, what's your theory on swingers?

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Hate to break it to you but, your wife is getting plowed by someone else. No woman, unless she's a tire biter, is encouraging her husband to go out and look at other women.

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Only when it's a threesome.

But your answer is standard for those like many of my friends that complain about how their wife hasn't given them a blowjob in over 5 years.

Considering I "plow" her 4-5 days per week, she doesn't really go out much, and we have each other on find my friends, very unlikely.

But hey..it could happen. But your correlation is a fallacy.

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You need a guys night out. Sounds like she is just clingy and you dont get to do crap when you want to.

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She's not clingy at all...that's why I can do this. I don't get out much because of me. Stay too busy with other shite. I need to for my own well-being. And paradoxically, it's probably unattractive that I don't get out more.

I should have mentioned that when I told the wife, she said "Good. You never go out. You need to. Enjoy the eye candy and I'll be waiting." And winked.

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Oh. Don't worry, I will be banging her when I get home. It's almost like she tries to reclaim me when I get home from a night like this


So, in your "happily married with a damn good sex life" relationship, you need other women to get you fired up to bang the wife? Either you ain't happy, or the missus doesn't crank your tractor as much as you claim.

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Coolidge Effect
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I don't NEED other women. I still get fired up to bang my wife. I rarely do this. It can add spice. Wife and I both enjoy it.

People get stuck in the same mindset and follow the same fears, complaints and signals and assume it works even though there is a 50% divorce rate (or whatever it is).

For example, when a guy is hyper-vigilent about his wife not doing things that could put her in a position to cheat (like a night out with the girls), she will feel controlled, maybe cheat, but for sure remain reserved sexually with you.

Most guys want to marry a virgin and then want her to be a slut in bed. But as soon as they put on a short dress in public and show some cleavage...or flirt with a guy, they get all insecure and call them a "whore" or same something about acting inappropriate. They wonder why they never see the slut they want in bed.

Men and women are alike. So...when men get all horny and freaky, they also like to look at other women. You want your woman to be all horny and freaky, looking at other men goes along with it. If not, women shut it down. Something men have trouble doing.

I have lived all this

It would probably help if guys had their age, marital status and experience in there signature to add credibility...lol

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t's almost like she tries to reclaim me when I get home from a night like this


if true, that will end soon.

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Explain?

We have been married 23 years

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If you had a great sex life you wouldn’t need to go out and look at other women. I bet you haven’t had your Pepe touched in months

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Oh yeah...i remember thinking this back in the day.

When you are married, over 40, get plenty of BJ's and sex from the wife, let me know if you still don't like to look at other women. And if you don't think your wife will be the same way....sex life gets really good when a married couple admits this and stays transparent.

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Drive up to Woodville if you're looking for real eye candy.

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If you are talking about Illusions...

Last time I went there and got a lap dance, I didn't realize half-way into the lap dance (when she put her legs on my shoulders), that she had a wooden peg leg. Then she asked me for meth.

True story...not going back

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If you want to be creepy and just stare at women they might as well have no clothes on. Yall baws load the ford up and tip on out the strip joint.

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Strip clubs here don't do it for me anymore. I end up leaving pissed off I spent cash on those chics

EDIT AFTER GETTING HAZED BY YOUNG GUYS --

Looking for a place to go on a Thursday that just happens to have good looking women to make it more pleasing to the eye...that's all