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re: Husbands & wives - top complaints?

Posted on 11/2/15 at 9:49 am to
Posted by freemanjiro
Izunokuni City, Shizuoka, Japan
Member since Nov 2013
1394 posts
Posted on 11/2/15 at 9:49 am to
quote:

It means lead by serving. Place her needs before your own. Forgive her.


Thanks Big Ed. I am working on that. Have a nice Monday!
Posted by Aspercel
Member since Jan 2009
114301 posts
Posted on 11/2/15 at 9:53 am to
Is this where we bitch about our spouse?

He's only around about 4 months a year, puts his job before me at all times, and doesn't really contribute to household bills while he's gone.

So yeah, any of those 3 things could be worked on.
Posted by tigersfirst
Baton Rouge
Member since Apr 2013
1064 posts
Posted on 11/2/15 at 9:53 am to
quote:

I'll never get why people post personal problems and intimate details about their lives on a forum. You should make some friends dude.


This. The OT isn't a small group session of an interpersonal communications course. If you honestly want to get real feedback on a question like the one posted in the OP on this forum, you are a pathetic idiot.
Hot asian wife though, props.


Posted by Rouge
Floston Paradise
Member since Oct 2004
137818 posts
Posted on 11/2/15 at 9:54 am to
quote:

He's only around about 4 months a year, puts his job before me at all times, and doesn't really contribute to household bills while he's gone.


Hey. Have we met? You can call me Jody...
Posted by Walt OReilly
Poplarville, MS
Member since Oct 2005
124694 posts
Posted on 11/2/15 at 9:54 am to
Why not leave him?
Posted by Aspercel
Member since Jan 2009
114301 posts
Posted on 11/2/15 at 9:55 am to
Hey rouge


Been seriously considering it Walt
This post was edited on 11/2/15 at 9:55 am
Posted by 68wDoc68w
baton rouge
Member since Jan 2014
1869 posts
Posted on 11/2/15 at 10:02 am to
I can help anytime you need
Posted by Walt OReilly
Poplarville, MS
Member since Oct 2005
124694 posts
Posted on 11/2/15 at 10:04 am to
Posted by freemanjiro
Izunokuni City, Shizuoka, Japan
Member since Nov 2013
1394 posts
Posted on 11/2/15 at 10:05 am to
shite, Walt is up in this thread?!

Aspercel - sorry to hear. Is he is working and trying to provide? I have no other info so that is just one assumption. Still, only being together for a few months out of the year has to be less than ideal. Kids? Do you guys get along when he is home?
Posted by 68wDoc68w
baton rouge
Member since Jan 2014
1869 posts
Posted on 11/2/15 at 10:05 am to
Posted by Aspercel
Member since Jan 2009
114301 posts
Posted on 11/2/15 at 10:07 am to
No kids. Don't see him much when he is home anyway.

The job he's in usually has spouses that travel together (gypsy type life) but we can't do that. I'm just extremely pissed off at him today

I would be better about it if he did send more $ home. Buying horsey things would make me much less angry.
This post was edited on 11/2/15 at 10:09 am
Posted by yellowfin
Coastal Bar
Member since May 2006
98442 posts
Posted on 11/2/15 at 10:10 am to
You're always pissed at him though
Posted by Aspercel
Member since Jan 2009
114301 posts
Posted on 11/2/15 at 10:10 am to
Yep
Posted by Schwartz
Member since Nov 2006
27097 posts
Posted on 11/2/15 at 10:11 am to
Take me fishing.

Or fisting. Either one.
This post was edited on 11/2/15 at 10:11 am
Posted by Mung
Ba’on Rooj
Member since Aug 2007
9075 posts
Posted on 11/2/15 at 10:13 am to
quote:

women are cray cray.


you figured it out. but they are so soft and nice smelling, it's hard to not put up with a little silliness to get the occasional loving.
Posted by TheIndulger
Member since Sep 2011
19245 posts
Posted on 11/2/15 at 10:15 am to
Is Japanese dead bedroom syndrome a real thing?
Posted by freemanjiro
Izunokuni City, Shizuoka, Japan
Member since Nov 2013
1394 posts
Posted on 11/2/15 at 10:15 am to
[quote]No kids.

That is good. Maybe try to sit down and talk? I hope it is just a temp. thing with his job and you can work things out. Good luck
Posted by TheIndulger
Member since Sep 2011
19245 posts
Posted on 11/2/15 at 10:16 am to
Doesn't contribute as in doesn't offer money, or does he expect you to take care of it with his money?
Posted by 68wDoc68w
baton rouge
Member since Jan 2014
1869 posts
Posted on 11/2/15 at 10:18 am to


sounds terrible explain
Posted by Aspercel
Member since Jan 2009
114301 posts
Posted on 11/2/15 at 10:19 am to
Maybe we will talk in December.

If he comes home in December. Who knows. Was supposed to be back in October. Just found out so this is why I'm pissed and bad mouthing him.

Does not contribute $ while he is gone.
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