Fat shamed lady spinoff?

Just curious, do fat guys get more of a break than fat women do? Or are most everyone that is obese feel insecure? Since I've transformed into being obese I haven't noticed anyone looking at me different or what not. I usually don't pay attention to people in my surrounding area all that much anymore.

Other than not being in great shape physically I haven't noticed a difference in how people approach or look at me. I still sweat like a whore in church on Sunday so people may get disgusted by that