re: A guy in my neighborhood put an anti-gay sign in his yard.

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I'm the same way, and yet so many here use the "they choose to be gay" as a way to villianize, marginalize, and judge gay people. See the stupidity of that argument?

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This whole argument is taking place in the context of a society that has mostly internalized the belief that right and wrong is largely a matter of personal feelings.

That context means it's no longer possible in most circles to have a serious discussion about the rightness or wrongness of a person choosing to engage in sodomy or what passes for sex between two women.

At what point someone "becomes" gay and the extent to which choice plays into that is unique to each individual, which makes this an even more difficult thing to discuss profitably.
However, anyone who has thought seriously about it cannot justifiably say that people are simply born gay and cannot deny the impact that life experience has on one's sexuality.

It's at this point or sometime well before this that most people will just roll their eyes and say "live and let live", but then, those people probably should decline to participate in the conversation in the first place.