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re: Interested to hear your story if you found out your partner cheats with multiple people
Posted on 7/1/21 at 3:52 pm to BusinessKnight
Posted on 7/1/21 at 3:52 pm to BusinessKnight
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Yes, I need to figure out why I am insecure to the point that I became a doormat
I was in a similar situation a few years ago. It was the first time that I cared enough about someone to not be as selfish as I was. Instead of taking care of my needs, I brushed them off to make sure I stayed in her good graces. After 5 years, I had enough of it and moved out. She had another dude living and sleeping in our bed within a few months. It was the most hurt I've ever been. My advice is to get a therapist you trust and go for it. Try to move on and learn from it. It's taken me some time but I've found someone who is way better to me and for me, but I could have only found it with working out my issues and "forgiving" her for what I thought were relationship ending issues.
Also, you need to be upfront and clear with your family. When she contacts you again, which she will, you need to stay strong and not go for that one more time sex.
Posted on 7/1/21 at 4:47 pm to Monday
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I was in a similar situation a few years ago. It was the first time that I cared enough about someone to not be as selfish as I was. Instead of taking care of my needs, I brushed them off to make sure I stayed in her good graces. After 5 years, I had enough of it and moved out. She had another dude living and sleeping in our bed within a few months. It was the most hurt I've ever been. My advice is to get a therapist you trust and go for it. Try to move on and learn from it. It's taken me some time but I've found someone who is way better to me and for me, but I could have only found it with working out my issues and "forgiving" her for what I thought were relationship ending issues. Also, you need to be upfront and clear with your family. When she contacts you again, which she will, you need to stay strong and not go for that one more time sex.
Thank you for sharing your experience and the good advice. Yes, I cared about her more than I probably should have and put her needs ahead of mine and tried to stay in her good graces as you put it, also. She should have been trying to stay in my good graces but she didn't care enough, apparently.
This post was edited on 7/1/21 at 4:54 pm
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