re: ladies or successful men of the ot, how accurate is this advice

What a bunch of inane horseshite. If you want to attract a gorgeous, charming woman, try to be a successful, charming man. Work out and groom yourself to be as physically attractive as you can be given your genetics. Pursue your career with focus and discipline. Develop your mind and your natural interests. Be strong and responsible and dedicated. Cultivate real friendships. Identify the principles you stand for. In short, be the best man you can be. This will benefit you in more than just your dating pursuits. Then, if you meet a woman you truly love, be passionate and romantic and fun and sexy and caring with her. It's not that complex. Enough with these empty manipulations and useless algorithms.