re: CHS Sr. committed suicide tonight

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FWIW, there are those here that know your pain

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Look, I can't speak for HC, but when you deal with something that not many other people have dealt with specifically, the last thing you want to hear is someone saying "I understand" or "I feel your pain".

We all go through tough times. That's life, but some people go through more than others and when you have someone saying "I understand" and babbles on with their cliches and bullshite it doesn't help.

Everyone gets it "things get better with time" and "they are not alone" blah blah blah.

And I know the reaction I will get just because I am posting it, but I am being absolutely serious. Just stop with the cliche bullshite and I am sure HC is aware she isn't alone. He has a spouse and a child who depends on her. I lost my dad when I was 19 years old. There still isn't a day that goes by that I don't think about him, but to think about what HC has gone through and put myself in that situation.. To where I would have lost my dad, then mom and then one of my siblings (which are my half brother and sister who are 10 and 11 years older than I who I am not that close to), I just can't understand what that would be like.