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So we dropped it. Can’t figure out if that makes us beta or not? Or just having good manners and not wanting to kill a good night? What says the OT?

First, you're not a wolf, you don't live in a pack, and you don't go out with your family to track prey. There are no "alpha or beta" humans. There are men who are confident and men who fret over things like "am I a beta?"

Second, if you spend less time worrying about how others choose to live, you can focus on the girl in front of you. She doesn't give a shite about your views on the gays. She wants you to be interested and INTERESTING. Stay out of other people sex lives so you can enjoy one of your own. Mind your own business and live and let live.

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Girls don’t address the point directly but react emotionally.....

A girl's vag also reacts by drying up when a guy isn't listening to what she's saying. Every girl's life is filled with judgement. Guys judge her, her friends judge her, and she constantly judges herself. If you want to get laid, don't judge and understand how to gently shut her down when she starts with the judging.... or just STFU.

Girls are not direct that's why you listen. If you don't agree with her, don't pretend to agree. Agreeing with her will not get you laid but pissing her off ensures she's done for the evening.

Redirect the conversation. If you do piss her off, you have about two seconds to make her laugh. This is the rule of thumb when it comes to any altercation with a woman: you may be over it but she's not and won't be for long time.

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......underlying threat that if we keep it up nobody is getting any.

Establish that sex is mutual pleasure. DON'T LET HER GET AWAY WITH "FRICKING YOU IS SOMEHOW HER DOING YOU A FAVOR." That's female BS that she's hoping you don't let her get away with.