re: Dating Advice: Are my dating views radical?

Don’t do the “go Dutch” thing. Just meet at a coffee shop the first date and get her a $4.00 coffee. If y’all hit it off, then go from there. Don’t buy a dinner unless you talk to her on the phone for over two hours since it may be a waste of time where you have absolutely no connection.

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I also told her that more and more men are adopting this view.

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SPOILER ALERT: They’re not. If you’re worried about money, go with meeting for coffee. That won’t send off any red flags for any woman unless she’s a gold digger like your cheap arse fears.

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The woman replied back that she didn't agree that more men are adopting this view and that I am the only one that has brought this mentality up. She also said she would advise me not to mention this to women in the future, women who could be my future girlfriend and potentially future wife.

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Obviously the best advice you’ve ever received. You’re a cheap skate. Go with coffee or meeting at the bar for an hour. You saying you have to pay raises red flags. If you’re too cheap to pay $20 for a meet up, you will never find a woman.