re: Is divorce now a group decision?

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Why can't the wife find any hobbies or do something else that makes her happy instead of expecting the male to do everything for her?

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as an accused misogynist, i'll defend women here

many times she doesn't have time b/c she gets burdened with all of the housework and dealing with kids

the OP (and most comments) seem to discuss a situation where the man earns/works a lot more, which means the wife will have disproportionate house work. this will, in turn, decrease sex and that kills passion. once it's a boring routine without passion (and the sense of being desired), hens will cluck

most of the stories posted could have been avoided had the man been more aware of the situation. it may not have fixed it, but at the least, the exit strategy could have been much more rational and controlled.