PS3 mlb the show DD freaking laggers

I don’t game much (tiger woods or the show) and I game live even less. Anyway I decided to play DD last night hoping that eventually I would get a non-cheater. So same old story, as soon as we start he pauses the game. Asshat. I pitch Lester and a few others throwing off speed stuff and Lester’s wicked curve. I didn’t recognize his pitcher but he was throwing heat and when I’d pitch my heat was lobbing it in there. So I pitch Lester for about 3 innings, Rollie Fingers a few innings, and a few no name relievers to get to late innings. He scores two in top of 9th to take a 3-2 lead. I somehow get a hit to deep left field and his OF skates over and misplayed the hit. I have prince fielder pinch hit and he hits a monster shot walk off deep to CF.
This felt so good - I flipped the bird to the screen.
Who the frick cheats at video games??