re: Married/relationship men of the o/t...how often do you have sex

Probably averages to 3-4 times per week. We've got a 14 month old kid, so it just got back up to that level. For the first 6-8 months after having him we probably did it 1-2 times per week. BJs are standard foreplay every time we have sex, but it's only a stand alone event when she's on her period. Been married 5 years