re: Parent Problems looking for advice

You are an adult and can make your own decisions, but your job as a parent is to make the best decisions you can for your children until they are adults. Sometimes those contradict each other, but your decision as a parent should always trump any other one. You are also there to protect your family and set an example for them. Get a restraining order if necessary. With your kids involved you should have no issue getting an emergency one until the hearing.